when these lies come from Jely, he beats me even more, since it is assumed in theory that I know as almost anyone because it is my daughter, but the reality is in many cases different from the theory.
last week, amid this frenzy of exhaustion I live lately, I discovered that the Carricito in question had not only lied to me, but he had disobeyed a direct order that I gave. we are not talking about something radical or personal, simply forbade him not to touch me some more equipment and books to care for her friends @ s than anything else.
since returning from my office I discovered that not only had not complied with this order, but deliberately lied to get the key to enter. it provoked in me a load of indigacion such that I had to be patient and hold back to talk to her about it. Jely this already large and well aware of when it's right or wrong, only that by their very innocence do not think I will realize. That night I called and she knew where the thing was coming, so put your best face of repentance and calo my sermon for almost an hour in length.
so far have been very limited the time that something like this has happened, I do not see the need to use a different method than that applied: the dialogue. I myself am part of that parental violence does not help (I'm sane, but my mom fell to whip me as a child and has no idea, lol).
after talk, that she acquired new commitments not to repeat the incident and receiving their respective punishment, we ended our conversation very maturely, without reproach, without passing rabies in an atmosphere of peace that I hope never runs out.
more than a girl, very young Jely has been able to react warmly to hear more, and that has made it easier to talk with her and not use common punishment is wrong to make him see what he did. Http://www.to2blogs.com/ping/xmlrpc/b1f2a68e130e3709104a087640cca2816d358aca
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